For a woman, her lover's value is always more than all the world's treasures. And, when her lover becomes her husband, she opens the floodgates of abundance in the relationship. The happiness explodes through her heart, and she starts loving her husband endlessly.
This is the mere fact! The true beauty of a woman!
But, Alas! These heavenly situations, and her true inner happiness, fade away after some time. Her husband devastates her emotionally and puts her in miserable situations.
Sometimes her husband gets busy in getting someone else's attention, sometimes her husband loses interest in her, sometimes her husband starts taking out flaws in her, and sometimes her husband stops listening to her true feelings.
This unexpected situation ruffles her dreams brutally, and she sheds the tears of hopelessness all day day-to-day.
If you are also in a hopeless situation, and if your husband has lost his interest in you, and if you still want to make your husband happy, then first I deeply appreciate your feelings and your commitment to your relationship.
Your commitment to your relationship, and your powerful desire, will definitely help you to turn all of your future dreams into reality. I literally believe, the level of desire, and commitment, which a woman possesses, can turn any impossible dream into a reality.
And, I respect that!
When a woman comes in a mood of accomplishing something, she accomplishes much more in a year than most people accomplish in their entire life.
I've put together 7 novel ideas for you that have the power to make your husband happy. These novel ideas will not only end the frustration from your relationship, but also give you the best of years of your life.
So, apply these below ideas now, step by step, and fill your relationship with strange delights.
1. Kill the Dead Weights
Dead weights are destructive. They eventually destroy the relationship and inflict serious frustration. They should concern you the most if you want an "Always & Forever" relationship in your life.
What are the dead weights in the relationship?
"Arguments, mistrust, money-matters, comparison game, and bossiness are the dead weights of the relationship."
In fact, they are the double edged swords that kill the soul of love and make your relationship dead.
Think seriously, how much these dead weights are causing you problems? 20 percent? 50 percent? Or, 90 percent?
And, you'll get your answer!
These dead weights set the foundations of every fight. So, eliminate them from your relationship as much as you can... I know it's not easy, but it's not impossible too. Once you minimize their destructive presence, your relationship automatically thrives. You, and your husband, begin to look at the positive side of the relationship.
Now, I know most of you must be thinking that you are not the creator of these dead weights. And, your husband is. If this is the case, then avoid those situations that bring these dead weights into the relationship.
Don't blame him. Don't fight with him. Don't tell him that he's the one who always create problems... This attitude will shower more fuel on the fire.
Instead, focus on other novel ideas. Your this problem will be automatically solved. You, just you, avoid these dead weights as much as you can... This is the best thing you can do.
2. Hug the Certainty
Relationships flourish only on the grounds of certainty. Certainty not only makes the relationship secure forever, but also fire up the flames of love constantly. It injects true love into the hearts of couples and indulge them with the rain of happiness.
Uncertainty in the relationship never let you, and your husband, be genuinely happy. Both of you look at each other with doubtful eyes and question each other's loyalty. Uncertainty compels you to fight, again and again, on small small issues, and one day it turns some small issue into a major dispute.
Moreover, true love never blossoms under the dark clouds of uncertainty.
So, if you want to make your relationship strong, and if you want to make your husband happy, hug the certainty, and hug it well.
Make your husband feel the certainty of the relationship. Make him feel that you both will dance together for a life time. Make him feel that your love will burn brightly forever.
For bringing certainty in your relationship, the best thing you can do is to make future plans with your husband. And, first, make those plans that make your husband happy... This psychological strategy will help you to influence his mind, and emotions, very easily.
After some time, and after bringing him in the mode of acceptance & certainty, you can make as much future plans as you want according to your choices & wishes.
Future planning put a relationship on the grounds of certainty. It's a psychological trick that ends the doubts of the relationship and develops an eternal love.
3. Don't be His Mother
"Care about your life... Brush your hair... Avoid risks... Wash your hands... Tuck your shirt inside your trousers... Get serious about your career... Care about your life... Sleep on time... "
We often hear these types of sentences from women in the relationship. If you are one of those women who use these types of sentences, then please stop using them immediately... You are not acting like his wife. Instead, you are actually acting like his mother. You are destroying your image through your own hands. You are psychologically influencing him to treat you like a mother.
These types of sentences gradually destroy your desirability and end the feelings of love from his heart.
Now I am not saying that your husband doesn't need your guidance, or help, at times. Of course, he needs. But, he needs your help & guidance as a wife, not as a mother. He doesn't want you to treat him like a child.
Instead, he wants you to treat him like a man - a masculine & successful man.
4. Act Like a Desirable Wife
In a relationship, a desirable wife is always in demand. She intrigues the masculine feelings of her husband through her elusive charming qualities. She recharges the feelings of love in his heart and burns the flames of passion in the relationship, again and again.
What's the biggest mistake which wives make in the relationship? Any idea?
Well, the biggest mistake which wives make in the relationship is that, they start acting like his male friends. They believe that similarities make the relationship stronger, and, on the other hand, differences shatter the relationship. And, they start adopting manly hobbies and habits.
This is utterly a wrong belief!
This belief, and this strategy, will never let you become a desirable wife. You'll lose your importance, and you'll lose your value in his eyes too. He'll start neglecting your emotional needs, and eventually treat you with disrespectful behavior.
So, always remember, a female who acts like his male buddies never attracts him.
A man always runs after a desirable lady. And for being a desirable lady,
"You need to stay in touch with your feminine side. You need to stay in touch with your sensuality and warmth. You need to stay in touch with your attractive attitude. And, you need to stay in touch with your supreme confidence."
5. Fulfill His Key Needs
"Food, Sleep, and Sex are the key needs of a man." When you fulfill these key needs of your husband, you secure 90 percent area of your relationship. He doesn't look at any other woman and makes you the center of his attention.
Unfortunately, most of the advices which I often see in magazines, and in the ocean of websites, are utterly useless and fuzzy ideas. Those advices focus on those things that don't create a massive impact over a tough relationship... For example, they compel you to do romantic things, but they don't tell how to set the grounds of the relationship.
If the grounds of the relationship are shaky, the true romance will never blossom.
Have you ever thought why some men are highly romantic in their relationship even after the decades? How those men faced the toughest challenges of their lives successfully? How their everyday is better than their yesterday? And, most importantly, how those men stayed greatly faithful throughout the relationship?
And, the answer is simple: 'Their key needs were fulfilled by their wives."
So, before being romantic with your husband, fulfill his key needs first. This will not only make your husband happy, but also bring the feelings of love in his heart for you.
6. Share Secrets
"Secrets can be shocking, pleasant, and silly."
'Secret Sharing' is a magic recipe that strengthens the bonds of a relationship. It builds trust, love, and loyalty. A happy couple uses this magic recipe in the relationship time and time again and keep the interest level high.
If you want to appear as a perfect companion in the eyes of your husband: Share secrets with him! This will establish the bond of trust and your husband will start trusting you more and more... This strategy will make him feel comfortable in your presence, and he'll also open up his inner feelings in front of you.
Now I am not saying that share those secrets that can damage your relationship. If you feel your husband is likely to respond poorly on some secrets, then don't share them. Share only those secrets which you feel are healthy and good for your relationship.
This magic recipe - 'Secret Sharing' - has two more major benefits.
First, the communication level increases. He starts listening to you, and he starts sharing his day-to-day details with you. And, most importantly, all the conversations happen in the non-judgmental environment.
Second, your private life with your husband becomes mesmerizing. Your husband begins to value his private life with you more than his social life.
7. Improve Default Mode
The default mode of your relationship decides the appetite of your happiness. When the default mode is negative in your relationship, you shed the tears of frustration. On the other hand, When the default mode is positive in your relationship, You relish very special moments of your life.
Notice the default mode of your relationship. How's your everyday life? How do you both spend time? What are your leisure time activities? What's your mode of thinking? What are your hobbies and habits? What are your goals & passions? What are your targets? What do you want to achieve?
Think seriously about these questions. They are always present in our daily life routine. They create our default modes. If you discover that the answers of these questions are mostly negative, or if you are not satisfied with your answers, then do those things that can turn your answers into positive.
When you make the default mode of your relationship positive & happy, your relationship improves. Your husband starts taking interest in the relationship. He feels more happy in your presence and avoid the unnecessary social activities.
A positive and happy default mode has the power to make each and every day of your life beautiful.
Apply These 7 Novel Ideas Now!
My goal is not to make your husband temporarily happy. That's why I have given you those ideas that solve the core problems of the relationship and keep your husband extremely happy forever.
These ideas create a special world for you! You, and your husband, feel the true, inner happiness and connect with each other on a deep emotional level.
So, use these 7 novel ideas now... And, open the floodgates of abundance in your relationship.
Want to learn more from Bill Hamilton? Get '21 Crazy Tips for Creating Attraction' at Bill Hamilton's blog: http://www.beingelite.com
He loves coming up with new ideas and figuring out how to apply them; He also works with individuals, couples, and entrepreneurs to help them accomplish their ambitions. You can read his blog at: http://www.beingelite.com/blog
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